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Life is full of colours. Sometimes it is so bright that we beam with joy from east to west. Or it can be so mundane that when we colour Mr. Sun yellow, we forget to don on sunglasses for him and smack a grin on his face. Unfortunately, there are times where experiences can be so dark and cold that it sucks the life out of you.

Colourful moments are what make our stay here on Earth worthwhile. It is so refreshingly vibrant that you can almost feel a warm embrace in the blizzard cold and taste the rainbow in the night.

The two of us welcome you to our blog as we share with you the different hues of life from our perception and hope that in doing so, you too will share with us your thoughts and experiences.

Sincerely,



He'd move his world to be with me.

Monday, November 30, 2009
Love is patient and kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Dark chocolate. Some revel in it. It is so rich in chocolate that the bitterness in your mouth taste like heaven when you savor it.  There are some who don't like the bitter taste. I shared a piece of the dark chocolate, just a piece, to those within my innermost circle. As expected, they did not quite react the way I wanted them to. They did however react how I had anticipated them to. 


Don't love until you can't see the rain or Love with all your heart, but not to the point you get blinded. 


I may be on cloud 9 and build castles in the clouds on a daily basis, but I am not in any dilemma. I know what I want and I look forward to it. Believe me when I say I am happy and contented. I am not being pushed to do anything against my will nor being coerced into making a decision 'prematurely' as some would put it. I have thought of it for some time now and even the elders have been consulted. He placed my needs before his own. This beautiful man would sail the ocean, brave the storm and move his world to be with me. Cliche, but true. Every step of the way, he never fails to see to my needs and comfort. 


I understand your concerns and I am delighted by it because it show me that you care and worry about me. Try to understand the difficulty of the distance, for my sake at least. Just like how I would urge you to try letting the dark chocolate stay in your mouth for a few minutes so you are able to taste the full richness of it. Just try, you've got nothing to lose.



Remembrance Day

Thursday, November 12, 2009
11/11/1918 - the end of World War 1

For most people today, it doesn't mean much. For Muslims, it seems to mean even less. But the aftermath of WW1 has consquences we're still struggling with today.

Around here (Australia) and New Zealand, they remember the Battle of Gallipoli. A failed campaign by the Australian and New Zealand Armed Corps (ANZACs) to take a beach it what was then the Ottoman Empire. Muslims might say this is a good thing, they fought the Ottomans and lost. Muslims won the battle there, but lost the war, literally and in other less publicised ways.

One of the commanders of the Gallipoli campaign for the Ottomans was Mustapha Kemal Ataturk. He used the popularity he had gained for his succesful campaign to make himself leader of what was left of the Ottoman Empire, and established Turkey. He then set about making Turkey as secular as possible, effectively trying to erase its Islamic history, and any Islamic future it might have. This, in a country with 95%+ Muslims. I can practice Islam more freely in Australia and New Zealand than I can in Turkey.

Another character from then was Thomas Edward Lawrence (better known as Lawrence of Arabia). Under orders from the Arab Bureau (a British council in charge of strategy in the Arab world), he went and managed to set the various Arab tribes against the Turkish Ottoman Empire, with the promise that they would be in control of the entire region once victorious. The Arab Bureau used WW1 to cause internal revolt to break up the Ottoman Empire, in a more cost effective and timely manner. This played a big part in helping the Allied Forces to win WW1.

Obviously, T.E. Lawrence was very successful. After the Ottoman Empire fell, it left a massive power vacuum in the Middle East. The tribes began fighting with each other for land and national identity. New borders were drawn and imposed (Treaty of Lausanne [1923]), often without the population even knowing they were now in a different country. Some of these borders led to the Arab-Israeli conflict (Balfour Declaration [1917]), still a flashpoint of conflict in the region. There are still small disputes between the countries, especially about resources. So the reason they cannot do anything with a united front is because in the backrooms they are still arguing about resources like water, and do not trust the other with such an important resource.

The perfect example of the divide and rule principle.

That's all on a high political level. The human toll is much worse.

Best estimates say about 31.5 million soldiers were either killed, wounded or missing (I think by now we can assume the missing are dead). Civilian casualties are even harder to determine. Many died from Spanish flu or famine. Some countries had civil war erupt in the borders during the same time, and others (like the Ottoman Empire) commited genocide.

Remembrance day is meant to remember the soldiers, I choose to remember the civilians too. Alot of soldiers were also sent to the front, not even wanting to be in the army in the first place.

Recent attitudes towards soldiers involved in the wars in the middle east now has made me think about this. Some people applaud when soldiers are killed there. They also think it's not worth remembering these same countries soldiers from past conflicts.

I don't think this is the right attitude, especially if you live in one of their countries, and enjoy the benefits of living there. One of the benefits is their protection. If another nation invades Australia, the army will defend everyone in it, not just some. I think it's extremely ungrateful to cheer when their soldiers die. If this was a majority Muslim country with a Muslim government, and it was attacked, we're duty bound to protect everyone in our borders too. But if we have a portion of the population cheering when Muslim soldiers die, how would we view them?

This doesn't mean I support the troops completely. They're fighting wars now that are none of their business and are ill-concieved at best. I want those troops brought home. I won't cheer when they're killed, but I don't feel much sympathy for them either. They died doing their duty as they saw best, a good quality in anyone. Just because someone dies for something though, doesn't make it right.

The stance is probably seen as that of a fence sitter. It probably is. I feel that if people were a little more willing to jump over the 'fence' and look back, or look in the mirror, we'd go a long way to achieving peace. We might not even have a fence to sit on then.

Right now, I'm living in a country considered 'the enemy'. But I live a better life than I could in a 'friendly' country. Some respect should be shown to the people who helped build what I enjoy now. Respect, within the context of history, since they did achieve some of the comfort I enjoy at the expense of other Muslims. But Muslims should also remember how they contributed to their own downfall. Not all calamities are someone else's fault.

Lest we forget.


Misleading headlines #1

Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Four men in naked car wash romp as girlfriends film them

Not quite what you're thinking it is.

Because women are awesome, and men know it.

The primary reason that Muhsin gets to write the first post was because ladies are the new gentlemen. It is nevertheless, an honour bokkie. I am actually excited about this blog because from here on out, we are providing people with a glimpse of our world; our similarities, differences, passion in certain things etc.

From our interesting discussions, Muhsin's opinions about alot of things warrants more than just an applause. Sometimes I feel dumbfounded as to where did this guy land from. It would be a pity if I didn't encourage him to share with the public. The idea of the blog was courtesy of a friend of ours, Usha. Thanks for the idea, it is brilliant :)

Disagreements are bound to occur between any two people, couple or not. Muhsin and I have had our fair share of disagreements. He thinks Volkswagen Beetle is the ugliest thing he's ever seen and that lattes are for women, cos it's weak. Times like these I flirt with the idea of hoisting a bazooka onto my shoulder and aiming it at Melbourne.

He is right though. If you're looking for soap drama, this isn't the place for you. But, if you're looking for a good television show, I strongly recommend Grey's Anatomy.  Jokes aside, thus far we have been able to talk about issues and despite our differences, we do not let it get to us. He is gentlemanly and does not dominate over me like a chauvinist albeit his stubbornness.

Topics that we actively talk about range from politics, abortion, religion, life, love, homosexuality and even the type of coffee are included in our list. And no, lattes are not only for women. We just have better taste in coffee.

Join us as we embark on this insane yet exciting journey.  Feel free to share with us your thoughts as well. Widening our horizons is one of the main objective of this blog.



Insane experiment?

Monday, November 9, 2009
It seems I get the honour of making the first post on the blog. And really, it's going to be a rather interesting experiment.

Usually, blogs are just one persons opinion. This one will have two. Chances of disagreements are high. Not only that, but we're a couple too. So as if couples don't fight enough, we're opening an online arena where even more fights can start :-P.

We talk about alot of things, share our opinions on a wide range of topics. We agree on quite alot, and we disagree on many things too. But we learn to respect the others opinion, and don't let a disagreement, no matter how vigorously discussed, spoil the relationship. If anything it brings us closer.

We're not going to 'approve' what the other chooses to blog. It is their own thoughts.

Will we comment if we don't agree? Yes, of course.

And no, it won't turn into a soap opera. If you're looking for that you can find another blog.

How are we able to keep it civil then, and not make it extremely personal. It's simple, we've been following this little rule all along, without even realising it:

"Love is saying 'I feel differently' instead of 'you're wrong'."


No idea where it's from or who said it, but it works.


Testing

Thursday, November 5, 2009
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